What is a First Look?
When you’re planning your wedding day, you want everything to be perfect. Everything about your special day is meticulously planned, down to the color of the tablecloths. One thing you may not have considered is the first look.
What is a first look? A first look is a planned meeting of the bride and groom before the wedding ceremony. Usually a photographer accompanies the couple and records the meeting. Is a first look right for you? Here are some things to consider when deciding whether a first look is a good idea for your wedding:
First looks are non-traditional. This can be a good or bad thing depending on your preferences. If you’re a non-traditional couple that likes making your own rules and doing things your way, then a first look might be perfect for you.
If you believe in the tradition of not seeing your future spouse before the wedding, then you might want to pass on the first look.
Photos of the wedding are almost as important as the wedding itself! Pictures help you to remember your big day, so you can look back with fond memories for years to come. A first look will allow you ample time to take pictures with your future spouse. You can start the photoshoot as early as you desire, without having to worry about dashing off to the reception.
On the other hand, some people would rather capture the element of surprise on film. If it’s important that you have a picture of the groom’s face as he sees his bride walking down the aisle for a first time, a first look might not be for you. No matter what you decide, the beautiful grounds of the Montclair Country Club will provide a gorgeous backdrop for your photos.
A first look is a chance to share a private moment together with your future spouse. Weddings are public affairs, with all your family and friends present. Of course you want to share your special day with them, but some couples find it nice to have a chance to be alone together before the wedding itself. This can be a beautiful time to connect with one another on a deep level.
For other couples, it’s important to have their loved ones present for every moment of the wedding. If you want to be present with your wedding guests throughout the whole day, feel free to skip the first look.
There’s no right or wrong way to have a wedding. First looks are a trend that are gaining in popularity, and it’s something you can consider adding to your wedding day. Whether you love the idea or decide it’s not for you, the important thing is that you enjoy the once in a lifetime experience that is your wedding day.